Even George said it was
not going to happen but on
September 27th
2014, he married again. His bride, Amal
Alamuddin, a human rights
attorney. Why do people fall
in love? Can we predict which
marriages will last?
These questions can be
answered with a look at birth order.
Love At First Sight
There are two types of
love at first sight. The first is when
you meet someone with your
same birth order. You are
so much alike. The problem
with this match is that you
are so much alike you try
to occupy the same space. One
of you must step aside and
let the other shine. You can only
have one image in a mirror
at the same time.
The more lasting love is
when you meet someone that
matches a sibling in your
family of the opposite gender,
and you match one of
theirs. You will both understand
each other since you had a
sibling with the same gender
and birth order.
George is a Second Born
George has a sister two
years older than himself. He must
have easily dethroned his
older sibling Adelia Zeidler
as she did not compete
with him. She became a wife and
mother and stayed in
Kentucky close to their parents. Not
close to George, she was
unaware of his first marriage.
They do e-mail each other. George was an athlete in high
school and even tried out
to play professional baseball with
the Cincinnati Reds. One
trait of the Second born is that they
don’t like others telling
them what to do. This may be why
he has stayed unmarried
without children. It may also be
why he considers himself antiestablishment
and explains
the political stands he
takes. He likes standing up for the
underdog by challenging a government or an individual.
You never have a second
chance to make a good impression
with a second born. Having
had a few confrontations with
directors he is now more
comfortable running his own
production company. He
would be attracted to a #2 like
himself but his ideal mate
would be a #1 like his sister,
especially if she had a #2
younger brother.
First Marriage a Two/Only Double Birth Order
He married Talia Balsam in
1989. She has an older
half-brother Thomas Casey
King 8yrs older from her
mother’s first marriage. This gives Talia two birth
orders. She is a Second
born but also has the power
of the Only birth order
because of all the nurturing
she received at home while
her older brother was in
school. This really
“powers up” her #2 birth order.
The attraction for George
was her #2 traits. She
continued her career as an
actress and did not give
it up or “step out of the
mirror”, neither did
George. With the added
power of the Only
characteristics she was the
one in charge, not
George. The marriage
lasted only 4yrs.
Amal Alamuddin a Firstborn
Amal is the firstborn and
has a younger sister Tala. I
don’t know Tala’s date of
birth but she does have
a 12yr old daughter. I
assume she is no more than
2yrs younger than Amal.
This makes Amal a #1 birth
order and it does not look
like she has been
dethroned by her younger
sister. Like all birth orders
Firstborns have two
sides. As a #1 she can be either
domineering by giving orders or she gets her way by
being nurturing and supportive. Let’s hope this is her
type because George does
not like to be told what
to do.
Will the Marriage Last?
With the divorce rate
above 50% this is a question
to which everyone wants an
answer. It looks like
George has matched his
childhood family birth order
as his sister was a
#1. Amal comes close but the #2
in her family was a girl
not a boy. She will have a
harder time understanding
George, especially when
he wants time with his
buddies. This match is very
close to the ideal birth
order combination. It has an
excellent chance of
lasting a lifetime.
For more information on
Birth Orders go to
the same name by: Dr.
Robert V.V. Hurst
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