Alana Thompson got her start
on TLC’s Toddlers & Tiaras
as a pageant contestant. Her
personality caught the eye of
the Network who signed her for
10 episodes.
Birth Order
For those readers unfamiliar
with birth order a few words
of explanation are in order.
Birth order is your rank in the
family by order of your
birth. Every child in a family displays
a certain group of
personality characteristics depending on
their place in the family. This
occurs because of the interaction
between siblings, each is
different. The only exception is the
Only child who has no
siblings so he is influenced by the birth
order of his parents. Double
birth orders occur when the
spacing between individual or groups
of siblings is four
years or more. You can find more information
in my book;
Life’s Fingerprint:How Birth Order Affects Your Path
Throughout Life
by Dr. Robert V.V. Hurst.
Honey’s Birth Order
Honey is the fourth child in
her family. Anna is 17, Jessica
15, Lauryn 12 and Honey is 6.
Since there is a six year
space between Lauryn and
Honey this gives her a Four/Only
Double birth order. She is the fourth born but has been given
the nurturing of an Only child
since she has been at home with
her mother as her older
siblings were at school. This is a
powerful combination as the two birth
orders are at the
opposite ends of the birth order scale.
Fourth Borns
The fourth born child is the
true baby in the family. The older
children take care of the
baby so life is easy with others taking
care of you. Being the baby you have to speak up to get
attention so they are loud in
order to talk over their older
siblings. As a Four, the adult world does
not look intimidating
as they have been interacting with much
older siblings all their
lives. They can be very social and mix
well with children and
adults. Life is fun if you don’t have to
grow up.
Only Birth Order
This child has no siblings so
most interactions are with adults.
This is their peer group and
their parents treat them as adults
and they talk like adults.
Most precocious children are Only’s or
a combination of their birth
order and the Only characteristics.
Shirley Temple, a child star
of the past, was a combination of a
Three and an Only birth
order. She had the childlike qualities
of a Three but spoke her
lines like an adult. This was a very
captivating combination. These unique qualities did not allow
her to advance her career
into adulthood. The magic was gone.
Four/Only Birth Order
This is Honey Boo Boo. When you add the Only
characteristics to the Four you get a very
loud, in- your- face
child. You amplify intensity and magnify all the
Fourth born
traits with the addition of the Only birth order. At six years
difference from her older sister, Honey is a child that
is 60%
an Only and 40% a Four. She shows the child characteristics
on steroids and you can see the power of her personality in
the program. A little person speaking adult lines is very
comical
to the public. Over time Honey will get older and
just like
Shirley Temple these characteristics won’t elicit the
same
response. Look for the ratings to drop
as Honey Boo
Boo becomes Honey
Doo Doo.
If you think you have a little Honey Boo Boo at home; a child
with a Double Birth Order. Send me a comment with your family
information and I will give you the answer. Go to our website at
www.mybirthorder.com
Hi Dr Hurst,
ReplyDeleteYou treated my daughter,Ashley (first born)and are responsible for her gorgeous smile!!! Thanks again for that.
I am so interested in the birth order dynamic. I have two children:Ashley born in May 1979 and Alex,a son,born in December,1987----8 years 7 months apart. Any thoughts??
Thanks,
Madeleine
Madeleine,
ReplyDeleteGlad to hear Ashley still has her beautiful smile. She is a
One/Only Double birth order. Your son Alex is Two/Only Double
birth order but because there is an 8 year separation he is
80% an Only and 20% a Two. This is a very strong person who
is private and does not like to be told what to do. Let him
find his own direction because he will do it on his own. You
have two very strong children.
Dr. Hurst