Prince Harry and Meghan Markle: Their Birth Orders

                 

         Prince Harry and Meghan

The British Royal family is in the news with the upcoming 

marriage of Prince Harry and Meghan Markle.  The mystery

of attraction and the enduring stability of a marriage or 

relationship has eluded men and women from the beginning

of time.  Not anymore. By using birth order theory, we can

reveal the answer to this question. Prepare to be enlightened.

 

Love at First Sight

Is there such a thing as love at first sight?  The answer is 

yes.  Using birth order we find there are two types. The first 

one is the most exciting, when you meet someone with your 

exact same birth order.  You see life the same and react to 

others in a similar manner.  In a sense, you are seeing yourself

in a mirror. The attraction is intense. The problem begins 

when you both want to occupy the same space.  There can 

only be one image in the mirror at a time.  This strong initial 

attraction can become a lifetime commitment as soon as the 

two people decide who is the one that will be in the mirror, 

and learn to give and take in the relationship.  The second 

type of love at first sight is when you meet someone with the 

exact birth order position of one of your siblings.  Gender 

makes a difference, it must be an exact match for birth order 

and gender. If the gender is different then you see the person 

in the light of a different gender.  This type of love at first sight 

is not as exciting as the first type, but is comfortable and long 

lasting.  

Prince Harry a Second Born

Prince Harry is the second born.  As a child his brother was 

referred to as the heir and Harry the spare. The Second born 

is sometimes referred to as the middle child, this only applies

if there are three children. In reality, a second child’s 

personality does not need a third child to develop. The second 

child wants to be as different as he can be from his older 

sibling.This is the child that you don’t tell what to do. He is 

usually more athletic than his older sibling who would be the 

better student. At Eton College, Harry’s former teachers said 

he was a weak student but excelled in sports, particularly polo 

and rugby. After school he entered the Royal Military 

Academy becoming an accomplished Apache helicopter pilot. 

On the personal side, he has earned a reputation for being 

rebellious having the press label him a “wild child”. During a 

holiday in Las Vegas he was photographed naked playing strip 

billiards. Marrying an American woman, and one of mixed-
race, is just another way this second born is showing that he is 

different from his older brother.

Harry’s Girls Friends

It has been reported that Harry has had two significant 

relationships. The first was Chelsy Davy from South Africa, 

this lasted for five years. She was quite an athlete and her 

birth order was the same as Harry’s, a number two.  This 

would have been a natural love at first sight for both of 

them. Obviously they never worked out who would be the 

one image in the mirror.  Harry had a shorter relationship 

with Cressida Bonas of only two years. She was from 

England and of a royal lineage. She was the fifth of the five 

siblings she lived with.  There is a four-year gap between 

Cressida and her next oldest sibling.  This gives her the 

Double birth order of a five/only.  Birth order numbers repeat 

after number four so a five is much like a number one but a 

little less pushy. She gets the Only birth order because of the

time she spent at home while her older siblings were at school. 

Her relationship with Harry was almost the other type of love 

at first sight. Harry does have a firstborn brother, but Cressida 

has a second born sister. Not a perfect match for either of 

them.

Meghan Markle

Harry is now engaged to Meghan Markle. Meghan has a 

Double birth order. She has two older siblings 12 and 15 

years her senior. This makes her a Third born but because 

of the large gap in age from her older siblings she also 

gets the Only birth order. She interacted with her older 

siblings while she was growing up but lived in a different 

household. The Only/Three birth order gives her multiple 

characteristics. The Only side gives her self-confidence 

and a much more adult personality than Harry. Her three 

side gives her an ability to read people and situations.  

You might say she can easily manipulate people with this 

very strong but subtle double birth order. She likes to be

center stage and she usually gets what she wants. Her next 

older sibling is a boy and makes an exact birth order match 

with Harry.

  

Harry and Meghan

Harry must be fascinated by Meghan as he has no idea how 

someone with an Only/Three birth order behaves. He had no

girls in his family and no one in the three position. He cannot

possibly understand her and that may be why he is so 

attracted to her. Meghan has a brother in the number two 

position, this allows her to understand Harry. This gives her 

an advantage. It will take Harry some time to unmask 

Meghan’s real personality.

Princess Diana 
Harry's mother Princess Diana was a 3/1 double birth order.
This may give Harry an little insight into the Three 
personality.  A Three/One is nothing like a Only/Three.

Marriage Longevity

All birth order combinations can work; some just take more 

work. Understanding your spouse is easier if you have grown 

up with a sibling of the same birth order. For Harry, this is 

going to be difficult, he has no sisters and no third sibling. He

may never understand Meghan.  For her, the prize, her Prince, 

may be difficult to control or manipulate. If she tries to tell 

Harry what to do, it may be the end of the marriage. Having 

an older brother that is also a number two will be very helpful 

to her. For Harry, he will be marrying two people, an Only and 

a Three. This should make things interesting and should keep 

both Harry and Meghan at the top of their game.

Update 1-14-2019
The wedding is over and Meghan is now pregnant. It has been 
just over a year ago that she married into the Royal family. Her 
demands on her staff have the British media branding her 
"Duchess Difficult." Interviews with her family in Vanity Fair 
paint her as a calculating social climber, she carefully 
choreographs every moment of her life. Her goal was always to 
become a household name. Not a person you can really 
become friends with. What she got with Harry was 
unimaginable attention. It looks like this Only/Three has found 
her place in the world. Will Harry ever see the real Meghan?

Update 1-13-2020
Almost one year to the day Harry and Meghan are back.
It looks like our happy couple is in the news again. Prince 
Harry and wife Meghan have decided to leave the Royal 
family and make a new life on their own. This is not 
surprising as the number two boy is not directly in line to 
inherit the family business and in Harry's case the Throne. 
We can see the sibling rivalry out in public as his older 
brother says he can no longer put is arm around his brother. 
Wife Meghan is sure to have influenced the decision with 
her three/only double birth order she holds a lot of power 
over Harry. 

 

Update 3-11-2021 

Harry and Meghan just had an interview with Oprah. It's

hard to keep a Only/3 birth order quiet for long.  They 

want the spotlight and Meghan is the poster child for this

Double birth order. She revealed in the interview just 

how difficult she can make her situation. She is truly

the drama queen. 

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