Monday, March 26, 2018
It was the Olympics in South Korea of 2018 that the world got
their first good look at the younger sister of Kim Jong-Un, the
dictator of North Korea. This was the first time that a member
of the ruling Kim dynasty had visited South Korea since the
Korean War. Although the US media fawned over her
appearance it is her birth order that will unmask her. It will
answer why her brother selected her to represent the country
and play a part in his regime. She is currently the Director of
the Propaganda and Agitation Department of the Worker’s
Party of Korea.
Kim Yo-Jong is the daughter of him Jong-il (Blog 3-1-11)
and his wife Ko Yong-Hui, born September 26, 1987. She and
her brother Kim Jong-Un (Blog 4-15-13 ) have the same father
and mother. She and her brother were both in Switzerland at
the same time studying together from 1996-2000. Their time
together in a foreign country surly helped their relationship as
they had to depend on each other.
Her Double Birth Order
In order to get a Double birth order the interval between
siblings or groups of sibling must be four or more years.
Kim Yo-Jong has a Five/Only birth order. Looking at her
siblings show us how this was calculated.
#1 Kim Jong Nam 1971 Mother Mistress Song Hye Rim
#2 Kim Sol Song 1974 Mother Kim Young Suk
10 Year Gap
#3/1 Kim Joung Chal 1981 Mother Ko Young Hui
#4/2 Kim Jong-Un 1983 Current dictator
4 Year Gap
#5/0 Kim Yo-Jong 1987 (A five is a 2nd level #1)
Birth Order Characteristics of the 5/0
As the fifth child, she starts the birth order series again,
having characteristics of a firstborn. This second group
of birth orders has more muted personality traits then their
counterparts in the first group. If the firstborn wants to
be in charge, the fifth born will not charge right in and
take over. They would be content to wait for an opening
and then an invitation. Her Only birth order will give her
great strength to carry out any task without needing
approval. This is the adult in the room and she would be
strong but not impulsive.
Characteristics of Kim Jong-Un 2/4 Double Birth Order
The #2 birth order is often referred to as the “middle” child
as he seems to want to go his own way. This child does not
want to be told what to do and appears stubborn. This was
the birth order that Kim Jong-Un shared with his father Kim
Jong-il and why he was picked to succeed him. This birth
order number is very competitive and they want to control
their own space. In his case the country of North Korea.
They can appear to be a rebel but can cover up this personality
trait with an outgoing personality. The four birth order is the
real baby in the family and their life is centered around fun.
They are outspoken like a child and appear to be very
self-centered and their own cheerleader.
Kim Yo-Jong and Kim Jong-Un
Her brother is lucky to have his sister by his side. She would
be the voice of reason and not be impulsive. He on the other
hand with his Two/Four double birth order will be much more
volatile than Kim Yo-Jong.
Future Negotiations with President Donald Trump
President Trump shares the #4 birth order with Kim Jong-Un.
They both have Double birth orders as Trump is a #1/4 and
Kim a #2/4. This childlike impulsive #4 birth order will give
the two of them a starting point of agreement but Trump’s #1
birth order will try to overpower Kim’s #2. This is where we
should hope his sister Kim Yo-Jong influences her brother to
be reasonable which she could do. Only time will tell.
For more information about Double Birth orders get my book
Life’s Fingerprint: How Birth Order Affects Your Path
Throughout Life or visit our website www.lifesfingerprint.com
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Friday, February 23, 2018
This newly released book is the story of Nettie Sachs, an
immigrant born in Lithuania in 1885. Coming to America
opened a world of opportunities for her. Educated in New
York as a pharmacist she life was an adventure in America..
She experienced the Spanish American war, Galveston
Hurricane of 1900, Louisiana Exposition in St. Louis in 1904,
ending with bootlegging and speakeasy’s in Chicago. Married
five times, widowed twice, she gave birth to six children.
Nettie was murdered by her fifth husband when she was only
37 years old. Her last father –in –law was envious of her
wealth and wanted to claim it for his own. He used his son,
13 years her junior to marry her, then kill her. This true story
and the trial for her murder was the headline in papers across
the country in 1923.
Characters and Birth Order
When stories are told and books are written they develop the
personalities of their characters with the story. Without
knowing it, they all fit their birth order personalities. This is
especially true when the story is true and not fiction. This is
the case with this book. The following are the birth orders of
the main characters.
Our central character is Nettie. She had four older siblings
but there was a large age gap between her next older sister
and Nettie. This gave Nettie a five/only double birth order.
The five is a second level #1 so Nettie was a very put together
woman that was very much in charge. Her Only traits gave
her the ability to take charge and push forward with great
Second Husband Louis Zauderer
Louis Zauderer was her second husband. He had a double
birth order of a 2/1. Louis started the second group of
children in the family as he had a much older brother. He
also had a younger sister a 3/2 who must have dethroned
him. She married a very wealthy attorney and their parents
moved into his house in New York. Louis never got over
the dethroning and turned to drugs and alcohol. He was a
very unhappy man all his life. He had multiple wife’s after
Nettie’s best friend Anna
Anna was a third born with older brothers. She was shy and
protected by her older brothers. This made her very timid and
careful when she was on her own. Laughing on the outside
but crying on the inside. When she got older she developed a
very tough exterior to protect her inner self, the number three
doesn’t want anyone to know how vulnerable they are.
This was Nettie’s older brother in Houston. (He spelled his
name differently) He had a One/Only double birth order very
similar to Nettie’s Five/Only. This was the reason they got
along so well and he was very supportive of her. He help
finance her education, she in turn named her first child for
him.. Edward was a very successful businessman in Houston.
Dr. Samuel Herskovitz
Sam was Nettie’s third husband. He was a number four birth
order. The baby in the family that everyone wanted to help.
Women especially were fond of “taking care” of Sam. He had
a very interesting relationship with an older woman who
helped him during his medical school education. Sam was a
driven man especially in his profession but didn’t mind
taking a back seat to Nettie who had the superior birth order.
Harry was Nettie’s fifth husband and her murderer. He was a
firstborn that was coddled by his immigrant parents. He could
do no wrong and was given anything he wanted. This
developed in him an ego and superior attitude. He felt laws
were for others and that he was smarter than everyone else.
A small time wise guy in the 1920’s. His luck ran out when
he was convicted of Nettie’s murder.
I think you will enjoy this book now that you understand some
of the character’s birth orders. Real life is sometimes stranger
than fiction. You can learn more about birth order in my book
Life’s Fingerprint: How Birth Order Affects Your Path
Throughout Life. If you buy The Heartless Murder of Nettie
Sachs, I will send you a code to get the audio version of Life’s
Fingerprint Free. You can reach me through my website
Monday, February 19, 2018
Rachel Maddow, Television host, writer and political
commentator is seen almost every night on MSNBC
TV. Maddow became the first openly gay anchor to
host a major prime-time news program in the United
States. She was born in Castro Valley California
April 1, 1973. He father was a former United States
Air force captain currently a lawyer. Her mother was
a school program administrator. She has an older brother.
Sibling Rivalry is seen primarily as the competition between
the first two siblings. It’s not a new concept as it was
discussed in the bible between siblings Cain and Able. The
gender of the siblings can modify and color the struggle for
power for the number one position. The effects of this rivalry
can last a lifetime. The firstborn is usually the student and
the second born the athlete. Dethroning occurs if the second
born becomes the better student as they already are the better
athlete. The firstborn will then drop out as they now have
nothing to make them special. The reverse is also true where
the firstborn is both the student and athlete. Then the second
born may drop out as he has been “kept in line” by the older
sibling. Sometimes it appears there is no rivalry at all. Not
true, the two siblings may feel secure in their positions or are
afraid to challenge the other. The sibling rivalry relationship
is fluid and he can arise later in life if one of the siblings
perceives a weakness in the other.
Rachel and Her Brother
Rachel was born in 4-1-1973, three years nine months younger
than her brother David born 7-11-69. In high school Rachel
played basketball, volleyball and was a swimmer. David said
the two of them didn’t have an easy childhood. It has been
reported that Rachel use to wear his clothes. As a teenager
she would beat him up although she was three years younger.
She used to tell his girlfriends that she was more of a man
then him. He states that he really found it hard to find his own
identity. Rachel was so focused on his dethroning that early
on it looks like she was trying to change her gender identity.
There is no doubt that Rachel took the education prize
from her brother. She graduated at the top of her high-
school class and gave the commencement speech veering
from the script and shocking the school administrators.
She went on to Stanford University and was a recipient
of a Rhodes Scholarship to Lincoln College, Oxford.
This is where she earned a Doctor of Philosophy in
Politics. David went to the University of California
David is single living in San Francisco in 2017. A story
is told that his life changed the day his Uncle Bert gave
him a gun for Christmas while he was still in college.
He said that was the last time Rachel beat him up, it
changed his life. His father says that David has had a
hard time finding out what he wants to do but is a really
good kid. Rachel is openly gay having been outed in
college. Her life partner is Susan Mikula an artist. Their
first date was at a National Rifle Association event.
Sibling rivalry never ends.
Rachel shows us what can happen when Sibling rivalry
goes to extremes. Gender identity can be part of the
dethroning process. When a younger sibling moves up to
the firstborn position they then have to take on the
responsibilities of the firstborn. This is the unforeseen
issue with successful dethroning.
For more information about birth orders and sibling rivalry
you can find it in my book Life’s Fingerprint: How Birth
Order Affects Your Path Throughout Life. Or go to my
website www.lifesfingerprint.com . The book is also
available as an Audio Book. If you contact me I will
send you a code to download the book Free.