Sunday, September 30, 2012

Jennifer Aniston & Justin Theroux a Birth Order Match?

                                                              Jennifer and Justin

                    Birth Order Matches
                 For those of you that have been following my blogs or
                    have my book; Life’s Fingerprint: How Birth Order
                    Affects Your Path Throughout Life; you know how to
                    find your birth order match. Here is a short review for
                    those who are new to this topic. One of the principles
                    in finding your “love at first sight” is to match up with
                    someone of the opposite gender with your same birth
                    order. A better match is to find someone that matches
                    both the gender and birth order of a sibling in your
                    family.  This is the ideal match that lasts forever!

                    Perfect Matches for the Only Child
                 For this person finding another Only child is possible.
                    Unique to the Only child, who has no siblings, is the
                    affect of their parents birth orders. The Only child
                    merges the birth orders of both parents into their own
                    for a unique new Only flavor. For those that have
                    Double birth orders that carry the Only child
                    characteristics this blending of the parent’s birth orders
                    is critical to understanding this person.

                    Jennifer’s Birth Order
                    Jennifer has a Double Birth Order.  This means that she
                    has four of more years between herself and any other
                    sibling in her family.  In her case she is was born in
                    1969, 10 years younger then her half-brother John
                    Melick born in 1959. This gives her an Only/Two
                    Double Birth order.  She was nurtured at home like
                    an Only child so she acquires “Adult Like” traits.
                    She also gets some traits of a Second born which
                     gives her a sense of privacy and the need to earn
                     money so no one tells her what to do. She is reported
                     to be worth 110 million dollars in 2007 and was rated
                     as one of the top 10 richest women in entertainment.
                     With 10 years separation between Jennifer and her
                     older half brother she becomes 95% Only and 5%
                      a Second born.  Her father has a Three/Only Double
                      Birth order and her mother is a Third born. This gives
                      the Only part of Jennifer’s Double Birth order a lot of
                      Third born flavor and a natural attraction to a Third
                      born.


                      Jennifer’s and Brad Pitt’s Attraction
                  We have established that Jennifer is a Only/Two
                      Double birth order.  As the first born of her gender
                      in the family she also has a Firstborn flavor that
                      could be the attraction to another Firstborn, in her
                      case husband Brad Pitt. Having been raised by a single
                       parent since the age of 9 when her parents divorced,
                       she picks up a little of her mothers birth order,
                       that of a number Three. The Three is laughing on the
                       outside but crying on the inside. This was the same
                       birth order of Brad’s sister Julie, a number Three who
                       was also the first of her gender in the family.  Jennifer
                       said her relationship with Brad Pitt was very
                       complicated. Looking at their birth orders tells us he
                       had no idea what she was all about. He thought he
                       was getting a Third born like his sister but it was just
                       the outer wrapping. What he really got was and Only/Two
                       who he didn’t understand. Jennifer having an older
                       brother gave her a better understanding of Brad but
                       not enough to make this a lasting match.

                    Justin Theroux and Jennifer
                   Justin is a writer and actor who met Jennifer
                      while filming the comedy Wanderlust in 2010.
                       He has written Iron Man 2, Tropic Thunder, and
                       Rock of Ages. He has acted in Zoolander, Island
                       Emprie, American Psycho and Sex and the City.
                       Justin was born in 1971 two years younger than
                       Jennifer.  In birth order theory age is meaningless,
                       it is the birth order match that matters.  He is a
                       number Three birth order being 3 years younger
                       than his older brother with a sister in between.
                       This gives Jennifer the easy connection as both
                       her parents were Third borns. Bingo, a match for
                       Jennifer and someone she can understand.  For
                       Justin another match as he has a number Two
                       older sister who is no where near as powerful as
                       Jennifer.

                        Will This Marriage Last?
                    I have pointed out the reason for each of them to
                         be attracted to each other. It is not a perfect
                         match but a better one for her than Brad. Jennifer
                         will have the power in this relationship for the
                         strength of her birth order is a hard one to top.
                         If she sees her Dad and Mom in Justin than this
                         should work……

                          Update 
                          Justin and Jennifer did marry but it only lasted
                          two and a half years. The strength of her Double
                          birth order is a hard one to match.  Good luck
                         with you next pick Jennifer.

                         For more information on Perfect Matches go to
                         my website www.mybirthorder.com and get
                         a copy of the book.  For those that purchase it
                         from the website I will do a personal analysis
                         for you and help you find that “Perfect Partner”.
                         Dr. Robert V.V. Hurst
                       




                   
                         

Thursday, September 13, 2012

Honey Boo Boo: Her Double Birth Order




 


The latest in reality shows is Here Comes Honey Boo Boo.
Alana Thompson got her start on TLC’s Toddlers & Tiaras
as a pageant contestant. Her personality caught the eye of
the Network who signed her for 10 episodes.

Birth Order
For those readers unfamiliar with birth order a few words
of explanation are in order. Birth order is your rank in the
family by order of your birth. Every child in a family displays
a certain group of personality characteristics depending on
their place in the family. This occurs because of the interaction
between siblings, each is different. The only exception is the
Only child who has no siblings so he is influenced by the birth
order of his parents. Double birth orders occur when the 
spacing between individual or groups of siblings is four 
years or more. You can find more information in my book; 
Life’s Fingerprint:How Birth Order Affects Your Path 
Throughout Life by Dr. Robert V.V. Hurst.

Honey’s Birth Order
Honey is the fourth child in her family. Anna is 17, Jessica
15, Lauryn 12 and Honey is 6. Since there is a six year
space between Lauryn and Honey this gives her a Four/Only
Double birth order.  She is the fourth born but has been given
the nurturing of an Only child since she has been at home with
her mother as her older siblings were at school. This is a 
powerful combination as the two birth orders are at the 
opposite ends of the birth order scale.

Fourth Borns
The fourth born child is the true baby in the family.  The older
children take care of the baby so life is easy with others taking
care of you.  Being the baby you have to speak up to get
attention so they are loud in order to talk over their older 
siblings. As a Four, the adult world does not look intimidating 
as they have been interacting with much older siblings all their 
lives. They can be very social and mix well with children and 
adults. Life is fun if you don’t have to grow up.

Only Birth Order
This child has no siblings so most interactions are with adults.
This is their peer group and their parents treat them as adults
and they talk like adults. Most precocious children are Only’s or
a combination of their birth order and the Only characteristics.
Shirley Temple, a child star of the past, was a combination of a
Three and an Only birth order. She had the childlike qualities
of a Three but spoke her lines like an adult.  This was a very
captivating combination.  These unique qualities did not allow
her to advance her career into adulthood.  The magic was gone.
  
Four/Only Birth Order
This is Honey Boo Boo.  When you add the Only 
characteristics to the Four you get a very loud, in- your- face 
child.  You amplify intensity and magnify all the Fourth born 
traits with the addition of the Only birth order.  At six years 
difference from her older sister, Honey is a child that is 60% 
an Only and 40% a Four. She shows the child characteristics 
on steroids and you can see the power of her personality in 
the program.  A little person speaking adult lines is very 
comical to the public. Over time Honey will get older and 
just like Shirley Temple these characteristics won’t elicit the 
same response.  Look for the ratings to drop as Honey Boo 
Boo becomes Honey Doo Doo.

If you think you have a little Honey Boo Boo at home; a child
with a Double Birth Order. Send me a comment with your family
information and I will give you the answer. Go to our website at
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Wednesday, August 15, 2012

Obama Biden Romney and Ryan: Double Birth Orders




The Candidates Birth Order Affect
The race for President is now on with all the
participants selected. You may not know this
but in each of the Presidential elections after
Ronald Reagan defeated Jimmy Carter the
candidate with the higher birth order has always
won the election. Looking at each of the
candidate’s birth orders will allow you to unmask
their personalities and see their different
characteristics. It is also interesting that the
Presidential candidates choose Vice Presidential
running mates that closely match their own birth
orders.  

Double Birth Orders
A person will have a Double birth order when
they are separated from all other siblings by
four or more school years. When this happens
they add the Only birth order characteristics to
their number of birth. The larger the age interval
the greater the Only characteristics. This gives
them extra power as the Only child is the adult
in the room with lots of confidence growing up
in an adult world with his peers being adults not
children. Three of the four candidates have Double
birth orders. Looking at each candidate will give
you a new vision of who they really are.

Barack Hussein Obama Jr.
Born in 1961 he is six years older than his half
sister Maya Soetoro. At age 10 he left the family
to continue his education in Hawaii but shortly
thereafter he was joined by his mother and sister.
Because of the six year difference he will
demonstrate a Double birth order that is 60% an
Only child and 40% a number One.  These two
birth orders are very close as an Only child does
not become a Firstborn until another child is
added to the family. This birth order is very
confident with their own decisions and very
rarely will seek out advice from others. He is
a Super One, a high achiever and as a Firstborn
does not want to admit he is wrong. His closest
advisor is Valerie Jarrett, an Only birth order.
She has a superior birth order and is someone
he would go to for advice. One/Only’s have a
great deal of confidence and because they have
a younger sibling they can be more generational
in their appeal to the masses. Don’t look for any
change in direction from him.

Joe Biden
Obama’s presumed VP pick is the Firstborn of
four children. He, like Barack Obama did not feel
threatened by his younger sister. She has been at
his side through all the crises in his life and has
been the leader in all his campaigns.True to a
firstborn he is a high achiever, while growing up
he conquered a stuttering problem. Always the
leader of the “pack,” he demonstrated the firstborn
need to lead at an early age. His birth order makes
him want to be right at all times and not make
mistakes.  He has been known to make a gaff or two
but tries to cover it up with a little humor.  Expect the
same in this election.  As a Single birth order he does
not have the comfort level of the Double birth order
that carries the Only characteristics.  He will see
himself as the enforcer of the administrations policy
and be very direct in his approach. 

Willard Mitt Romney
Mitt is the fourth child in his family with the first two
girls and the third a brother, Scott six years older. This
gives Mitt the Double birth order of a Four/Only. It
is this birth order that is the most difficult to balance
because these two birth orders are the farthest apart.
A person with a Double birth order will move back
and forth between them showing two different
personalities. At a six year separation from his older
brother he is 60% an Only child and 40% a number
four. The Only side is the hard worker, adult and no
nonsense person willing and able to take on
responsibility. The Four personality is the baby in the
family that looks to others for help and wants work
to be fun.  This could be why Mitt is accused of
changing his mind. He is open to the ideas of others.
This is a characteristic not found in many politicians
as most are firstborns with little tolerance for the
opinion of others. There is no doubt that Mitt was
influenced by his father the former Governor of
Michigan who was a true number four birth order. 
When a number four realizes that life is hard and
you need to work, they really get it. Mitt seems a bit
stiff because all we have been seeing is his adult Only
side. When we see his Four side we will see his
playful characteristics. It is this Four side that allows
him to listen to his advisors, take their suggestions
and work with others.


Paul Ryan
Paul, like Mitt is the fourth born in his family. 
He has two older brothers and one older sister. 
There is a five year gap in age between his third
sibling and himself. This gives him the same
Double birth order as Mitt, both  Four/Only’s.
This is why he was the only real choice for VP
as he matched Mitt’s birth order. I stated in my
April 13th blog he was the logical pick for running
mate. Mate is the word, as this matching of birth
orders is a “love at first sight” paring.  The
difference is that Paul is closer to a 50% Only
and 50% Four split.  He seems to show more of
the playfulness of the Fourth born as life should
be fun not work. This is why bow hunting, fishing
and his family are a big part of his spare time.  The
fourth born is one to speak without using double
talk. Like a child they say exactly what is on their
mind. This is a very different from the usual
political speech.  The four is not afraid of elders
as they had practice with older brothers and
sisters. The Only gives them more power to be
outspoken.Others notice because they speak
with respect and have a kid like approach. He
like Mitt has been able to juggle these two birth
orders. In Paul’s case, the death of his father at
age 16 impressed upon him that life was going
to be hard work. That is exactly how he has lived
his life.

Predictions
Here we have a campaign with three candidates
With Double birth orders.  This seems to give the
edge to Obama and Biden as they have the higher
birth orders. Romney and Ryan both have Only
characteristics but this part of their birth orders is
muted by the addition of the fourth birth order. 
Not that they are  not up for the fight, but they will
be respectful and appear non-confrontational.  They
should be better able to relate to the public by
speaking clearly about the issues and not getting
too emotional. Having almost identical birth orders
is a plus for they will energize each other and speak
with one voice. Barack and Joe will be more like
your oldest sibling and try to tell us what would be
best for us. Because of the complexity of the
electoral process it is difficult to pick the winner
of the electoral votes.  There is no question that
Mitt and Paul will take the majority of the popular
vote but will it be in the key states? This election
will be a nail biter come November.

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Affects Your Path Throughout Life by
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Thursday, August 9, 2012

The Baldwin Brothers and Sisters Their Birth Orders

                            Stephen      Billy      Alec       Daniel
                           Jane William Elizabeth Carol Daniel Stephen Alec

                     A Family of Six
                     It is not often that in a family four siblings
                     are in the entertainment business. Of the six
                     Baldwin children the four boys are actors but
                     their two sisters took a more traditional course.
                     Birth order is a tool to unmask personalities
                     and we will use it here to look at each member
                     of this family.

                     Elizabeth Baldwin Keachler #1
                     Born in 1955 she is the eldest of the children.
                     She carries the firstborn birth order.  With so
                     many brothers she would have a hard time
                     keeping her position and may have been
                     dethroned by brother Alec, the second born.
                     She must be a very nurturing firstborn having
                     six children of her own. She is married to a
                     landscaper but finds time to head Stephen
                     Baldwin’s Fan Club. He was the sixth born
                     and older sister is acting like a mother being
                     11yrs older. She probably played this role
                     while they were growing up.

                     Alec Baldwin #2
                     Alec could be the poster boy for a type of
                     number two birth order. Born in 1958 three
                     years younger than his older sister. True to
                     a second born he does not like to be told
                     what to do. His confrontations with reporters
                     is widely known. Outspoken about his liberal
                     political beliefs he does not back down, a trait
                     typical of second borns. He has had many
                     roles but comedy fits this birth order as it
                     makes fun of traditional roles in life. His
                     Capital One commercials and his role on 30
                     Rock showcase his humor. In marriage his
                     ideal match would be someone that has his
                     same birth order of that of his sisters. Sister
                     Elizabeth is a number one and Jane is a number
                      Five.  Five is a second level number One as
                      birth order starts over again after number
                      Four. His first wife Kim Basinger was a
                      Number Three birth order and the first girl in
                      her family. She would have understood Alec
                      as she has a number two brother. Alec would
                      find her difficult to understand since he did
                      not have a number three sister. His new wife,
                      Hilaria Thomas has an unknown birth order. 
                      Let’s hope she is a firstborn with a younger
                      brother. That would be Alec’s perfect match.

                       Daniel Baldwin #3
                       Daniel was born in 1960 two years younger than
                       Alec.  True to the Third-born, acting would come
                       naturally as he really understands people. Many
                       times third-borns get addicted to drugs or alcohol
                       as they are open and willing to try new things.
                       Unfortunately, they are easy prey to addiction.
                       Such is the case with Daniel who fits the
                       Third-born description of laughing on the outside
                        but crying on the inside. His personal life shows
                        the free sprit of the number three. He has four
                        children each with a different mother. Winning
                        the battle with addiction would stabilize his life.

                         William (Billy) Baldwin #4
                         Billy was born in 1963 Three years younger 
                         than older brother Daniel. The fourth child 
                         is the true baby in the family. In high school 
                         and college he was a varsity wrestler. Sports 
                         and games and having fun is what the 
                         number 4 is all about. Before becoming an 
                         actor, Billy worked as a male model for 
                         Calvin Klein. His brother Daniel says “all 
                         the girls liked Billy." Maybe this was 
                         the signal he put out that said “Help Me, I’m 
                         the baby." Brother Alec said that Billy was the 
                         peacemaker when everyone was “going at it 
                         pretty bad”.  Billy refers to himself as the “white 
                         sheep” in the family. He has been married only 
                         once to Chynna Phillips and they have three 
                         children. Chynna’s birth order is a mystery as 
                         she is one of eleven siblings of her father.  
                         Being part of a large family should be second 
                         nature for her, she would fit right in with the 
                         Baldwins.

                          Jane Sasso Baldwin #5
                          Born in 1965 she is two years younger than 
                          Billy. A number 5 starts the birth order 
                          sequence all over again. She is a second level 
                          #1.  This means the characteristics of a 
                          number 1 are softened with the number 5. 
                          She like her sister took a more conventional
                          path in life.  She is a physical therapist and 
                          her husband runs a car dealership.

                          Stephen Baldwin #6
                          Born in 1966 just one year younger than older 
                          sister Jane. As a number 6, he is in the 
                          second group of birth Orders. A #6 is a 
                          second level  #2. Similar to Alec but without 
                          the edge and more subtle.  All children 
                          want to be different. Stephen is a 
                          Republican, completely opposite from Alec  
                          who has campaigned for Democratic  
                          candidates. He is also a born again Christian  
                          something that happened right after 9/11. 
                          He attributes this to helping him kick the  
                          drug habit but being a second level number 
                          two and wanting to be in control of his own 
                          life certainly helped. As the youngest in 
                          the family he has said that their family was 
                          more like The Brady Bunch, but on crack.

                          End The Confusion
                          An interesting family there is not doubt. We 
                          can get a different perspective of the 
                          Baldwins by looking at their birth orders. 
                          When all four brothers are in the same 
                          profession, it is easy to confuse them. By 
                          understanding their birth orders you have a 
                          way to unmask their personalities. You can 
                          now recognized their differences.
                         

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Monday, July 23, 2012

Tom Cruise::Mimi Nicole & Katie Their Birth Orders



Tom has been in the news again and unfortunately it was
about his personal life and his divorce from Katie Holmes. 
This was his third marriage and it may be time to take a
look at his and his former wife’s birth orders to understand
his marriages.

Tom’s Birth Order
Tom was born July 3, 1962 the third and only boy in his
family.  Everyone was close in age:
Lee Ann   #1   1959
Marian      #2   1961
Tom         #3   1962
Cass        #4    1963

Being the only boy Tom would be expected to act like a
firstborn. He was also nurtured by his sisters something
he would look for in a mate. He is still close to his sisters
and he has said he could live with any of them. His need
to act like a firstborn was something he may have felt
necessary as his single mother raised the family. Tom was
twelve years old when his mother divorced. This attempt
to be the man of the house was only an act as his  number
three birth order makes him a very sensitive person and
not one to give orders. Threes see the world and act very
differently than a firstborn.  Third borns are very open to
new ideas and will follow them with a religious zeal.  This
could be the case with his adoption of Scientology. His first
wife Mimi Rogers said Tom was thinking of becoming a
monk. When he was a student at a Franciscan seminary he
aspired to become a Catholic priest. This fits perfectly with
the world view of a number three and their outreach to
humanity. Laughing on the outside but crying on the inside
would be Tom’s way of coping.  He will try not to show he
has been hurt but his sensitivity is just below the surface.
His ideal match would be a #1, #2 or #4 that had a #3 brother,
which is his birth order.

Wife #1 Mimi Rogers
Mimi was born in 1952 making her six years older than Tom.
She is a firstborn with a younger brother.  This match was good
for Tom as Mimi matched the birth order of his older sister
Lee Ann also a firstborn.  Unfortunately Mimi did not have a
number three brother so this marriage was difficult for her
to understand Tom. She is credited for introducing Tom to
Scientology.  Their marriage lasted three years.

Wife #2 Nicole Kidman
Nicole was born in 1967, the older of two girls.  Her sister
Antonia was born three years later in 1970. This makes the
second firstborn that Tom married, he again matched the
childhood birth order of his older sister Lee Ann. Maybe
he had the feeling that Nicole would be taking care of him
like his older sister.  The problem here is that Nicole had no
brothers in her family and no one in the third birth order
position.  This would have made it difficult for her to
understand Tom.  This marriage lasted 11 years and they
adopted two children. It was during this time that rumors
circulated that the marriage was a cover up for Tom’s
homosexuality. They successfully sued the The Star on
this issue. Maybe his posing like a dominate first born
but acting like a sensitive thridborn gave the wrong
impression?

Wife #3 Katie Holmes
Katie was born in 1978 the fifth and last child in her family.
She carries a double birth order since there is a five year
gap between the first three children and the last two.
This is what the birth orders look like in her family.

Tamera                   #1 1968
Holly Ann               #2  1969
Martin Joseph Jr.    #3  1970
           5yr Gap
Nancy Kay           #4/1 1975
Katie                    #5/2 = #1/2  1978

Katie becomes a #1/2 Double Birth order as the fifth born
starts the birth order sequence again. You might say a #5 is
a gentle # 1. She gains the #2 birth order as she is the second
one in the second group of children. A person with this type
of Double Birth order vacillates between the two personalities.
Giving orders like a firstborn but then not wanting to be told
what to do like a second born. You might say that Tom saw
his two older sisters in Katie. She may have seen Tom as she
did her older brother Martin. Martin like Tom is a third born
with two older sisters. Tom matches her family birth order in
number and gender perfectly. This was the first marriage for
Tom to someone who could really understand him.  Maybe
that is why he was so excited, jumping on Oprah’s couch 
when he announced his marriage to Katie. He had finally found
his “soul” mate, but did he? Unfortunately Katie carries two 
birth orders so Tom would never be sure who she was.  He 
was totally blindsided when served with divorce papers. This 
marriage lasted six years.

The Future Mrs. Cruise
I hope this blog information gets to Tom so that his next 
marriage will be his last.  He almost got it right this time so 
next time should be the charm.  As a reader check your own 
birth order and that of your mate or significant other and see 
if you have a perfect match. You can read more about Double 
Birth orders in; Life’s Fingerprint: How Birth Order Affects 
Your Path Throughout Life, by Dr. Robert V.V. Hurst

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